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Is it a good thing or bad thing if girls always call you cute?
I am 22 years old and I seem to be getting called cute by teenage girls, girls in their twenties and older women. I always hear them say "hes cute" or "his a cute guy" when I walk down the street or in a shopping center etc. So is this a good or bad thing? (As you might have guessed i am not very good with girls) >_<
Cute is generally the best label. It means they find you attractive, and you have a clean slate to work with.
Labels like "hot" or "sexy" come with preconceptions about your personality as well as different expectations in regards to how they think you're going to act, talk, etc..
This is actually pretty normal. I had the same issue around that age. I went from being an awkward, rarely-complemented teen to getting those "Well, hello there! Get your cute ass over here and talk to me!" looks in my early-20's. Instead of getting lectured about turning something in late, flashing a smile at a female teacher would get me off the hook. Cashiers managed to always find something to talk to me about. It was shocking.
You just need to build up some confidence now. Women want you to approach them, but that won't help you much if you can't build up to the nerve to actually do it.
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